angel607 Posted November 27, 2004 Share Posted November 27, 2004 Hi all, I posted a while back about a guy I met- here's the history. I'm 19, he is 22. We met online about 7 months ago, and from there built up a strong friendship- speaking daily, then eventually speaking on the phone. We really began to fall for eachother, but for me anyway, I couldn't accept it with someone I had never met. Eventually I bit the bullet and went to stay with him (he lives 180 miles from me) for a week. This was 6 weeks ago now. We had an amazing time- he told me many personal things, we slept together, he said things like I was really special, he had never felt this way about a girl before and he felt really happy with me. He did tell me he felt he didn't want anything more though, and I made it clear I did. When I left him, he cried, and a mutural friend sais he was down about me going. It felt like we had an amazing connection, and we really got on amazing. When we got back, he didn't ring as much, or message, and I got scared and put too much pressure on him. He told me things such as: 'I was scared, I felt like if we was together I'd get hurt' and that when we was online, it wasn't 'real' but when we met it was, and he got scared and backed of. He said he just wanted to be alone. Well two weeks ago, he told me he had met another girl. I went mad and told him not to contact me again. Well after 2 weeks, he contacted me again. He said he was 'really sorry for all that crap' and he hopes we could still chat. My plan of action at the moment has been to not initiate any contact, and to make myself a little unavailable so he didn't take talking with me for granted. What do you all make of it? I want to be with him so much. Quote Link to comment
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