Silvi Posted November 15, 2004 Share Posted November 15, 2004 hia everyone, k wel im always the type of guy that girl just fancy, like a girl that i know she really likes me, shes with this guy but she said she doesnt really like him and he disappoints her, then why is she with him and not me. i just dont get how she can like me but not really want anything more then 'just to hang out'. girls in my area are like that, they have a boyfriend but they still fancy other guys. which is fair enough, but its not how i work, how i do things. i confronted her about this and told her how i feel, i said something like..."when i like someone, as in you, i like only you, atleast till i know that something cant happen between us." but she was surprised, one minute she's tellin me that she really likes me and she spoke about me with my friends, she was asking loads of questions and stuff, they told me she seems really keen on me. but on the other hand she doesnt want anything to happen cos she also has a boyfriend, im thinking..."why the hell do you give me your number, act really nice, tell me you fancy me? and then your surprised when i tell you i want more." well dats not exactly what i said, i told her dat i wanna know where i stand, dat i dnt just wana be the guy you see sometimes, the guy on the side. and she was like "what do you want me to do?" ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, this is really annoying!!!! how can she expect me not to get attached and to grow feelings for her. it might have been better if she just told me she had a boyfirend when we first met, atleast then i would have known where i stand, atleats i wouldnt get attatched to her. and i wouldnt get my hopes up thats something might go right for a change. i think i upset her a bit to. cos i cant wait around for ever but i really like her, a lot! what do i do? how can i move from just being another guy that she fancies to be somthing more? plus there is the fact that theres probably more guyz that she just fancies i cant compete with everyone, i wont! i need some help, some advice, please, i rely dont know what to do. god this is what i hate about myself, i get attatched too quickly. i know im only 16 but i wanna be in a proper relationship. thank you for reading and for any replies. sorry the message is a bit long. Quote Link to comment
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