tulipsfav Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Im not really sure if i am posting this in the right thread. I need some advice. Does being rejected make you a stronger person? Or does it have the opposite effect? Link to comment
FYI Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Being rejected should make you none of the above. But it should make you realize that not everyone is going to like you or think the world of you. Nobody likes being rejected. Link to comment
Kristenelaine Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Rejection is rejection. I think how you deal with it is what makes you stronger or not. Next time you will notice the signs of rejection and / or notice what's wrong with a relationship. Link to comment
tulipsfav Posted January 26, 2013 Author Share Posted January 26, 2013 Im constantly being rejected, i know what you are saying but its how the rejection takes place. The cruel to be kind way has lasting damage on self esteem. Link to comment
Kristenelaine Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Trust me I know. I carry a little bit of every rejection with me every time I enter a relationship. It has taught me to be more picky and to work on trust and a deep connection before jumping in. Rejection doesn't mean we aren't perfect for someone, just means that we are perfect for someone else. Link to comment
tulipsfav Posted January 26, 2013 Author Share Posted January 26, 2013 thank you Kristenelaine, this time i was unsure and very cautious, but i will know for next time. Link to comment
breakupvotecom Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 I think it is part of life. Everyone is just plain and simple just not going to like everyone else, you cant make someone like you! This was a big lesson I had to learn myself. I would get so mad when someone I found just be perfect didnt like me. But maybe it is because you are not compatible with them? You will meet someone awesome down the road! Link to comment
tulipsfav Posted January 26, 2013 Author Share Posted January 26, 2013 Yeah it really is a part of life but it really hurts, i have had my fair share of rejection. It makes it a lot harder to trust someone else. And i hope that someone awesome turns up some day Link to comment
catfeeder Posted January 27, 2013 Share Posted January 27, 2013 We get to decide how we want to use it. If we want to drill into injury, our reaction can cause all the damage and scars we can ever use to hold up and point to as the world being a cruel place. If we want to surprise ourselves with our strength and resiliency, we can shoot for that and admire those qualities about ourselves, instead. It helps me to think of finding love as fitting a bunch of puzzle pieces together. When two don't fit, it doesn't make anybody wrong, bad or deficient. It's just not a match. Head high. Link to comment
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