ck Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I been wanting to know what is the reason for this? They won't stare at other women (most of the time) but they will just stare at a guy. They can be reading a book, in class, at the bus stop, at the park ect. They will just stop what they are doing and take a very long uncomfortable glance at you. Do they think they might know you or something, are they trying to figure out if you might be one of their buddies, are they trying to put on there sexy face or something, are they thinking of a event in their heads and just go blank Link to comment
Stinkweed Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Maybe they think you're attractive? I just know that doesn't happen to me, or to tons of guys for that matter... Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 It has probably happened to you; either you were either just too busy to notice, or you thought nothing of it. They do it to a lot of guys. Link to comment
Stinkweed Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 It has probably happened to you; either you were either just too busy to notice, or you thought nothing of it. They do it to a lot of guys. Perhaps... or perhaps it is because I'm fat? Well, I guess the answer you're seeking will be posted by a girl anytime soon... Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 Well, I guess the answer you're seeking will be posted by a girl anytime soon... maybe or I might just have to post it again later intil somebody does. Link to comment
Stinkweed Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I actually think this could be a good sticky post, because I've seen tons of other people ask the same question... Plus, it could even be treated as a survey, you know? Good luck you all. Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 Ok now if they freaking get in here we could officially start the topic and get an answer. Link to comment
wlfpack81 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Good question..wish I knew the answer myself. Notice how no girls have come in here yet. Guess most girls are naturally teases. That's why I basically have started a trend of ignoring girls to the fullest. I'm not gonna fall for their teasing tricks and the like. Link to comment
Francis Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I wish I could help you, but I was raised never to look at men in the eyes. I hope you get an answer soon. Take care! Link to comment
bsmlb6 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 it happens to me to. i kind of like it Link to comment
Kitz Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Well, unlike girls, guys dont wear tight clothing, so if i'm 'staring', i'm usually because i'm 'checking out' their face ('coz there isny much else you can look at. ) In other words, its 'coz they find you attractive. Duh. Link to comment
pineapplegirl Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 >Women stare because you are either extremely different looking (could be good or bad), or they want you to talk to them, or they have bad manners b/c it's not polite to stare. >Usually, if I'm staring at a guy, it's b/c I want to get his attention. Link to comment
skyteph Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Women could stare because you stand out, either for your actions or because of your appearance (as said before, good or bad), or maybe you're standing inffont of a really groovy tree Link to comment
Sushi Overdose Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 for me, i stare at a guy if hes cute.. and when a guy is cute, i would look at his hair and his side angles.. but i know its impolite to stare so i hardly do that if that person's face is ugly or stands out in the crowd, its possible that you'll get a few stares from other people..lol Well, unlike girls, guys dont wear tight clothing, so if i'm 'staring', i'm usually because i'm 'checking out' their face ('coz there isny much else you can look at. ) alot of (straight and gay) guys wears tight clothing in japan, and they are very attractive.. Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 Good question..wish I knew the answer myself. Notice how no girls have come in here yet. Guess most girls are naturally teases. That's why I basically have started a trend of ignoring girls to the fullest. I'm not gonna fall for their teasing tricks and the like. Yeah I do the same thing Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 maybe you're standing inffont of a really groovy tree Ah sarcasm, that's nice but I don't think trees grown inside of class rooms so that is out of the question Oh and if I'm so ugly why would you break your neck to keep looking at me? That is retarded. Link to comment
cheerfuldaisy Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Maybe they find you attractive, cute or that they have nothing to do so they just stare. I find some people stare at each other while in a subway or bus because they do not have any else better to do than just stare...I guess... If someone stares at me, I will be like 'what is wrong with me or what is your problem...stop staring at me" I just find it very rude and irritated if someone stares at me. Well, I don't understand why guys like to stare at girls either... Link to comment
tea Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Personally, I stare for.. well, sometimes I stare at people to check out their face... some guys are just really good looking. sometimes I stare to check out their body... some just have a really nice built... sometimes I stare to check out their belly... why can't you exercise some and put your belly somewhere we can't see? sometimes I stare to check out their torso... what happened to your shirt? you lost it during fire? sometimes I stare to check out their face... they're just that ugly it's cool. sometimes I stare because of their "type," extremely cultured guys and complete jocks, or something extreme but good looking like that will get a couple of stares from me. sometimes I stare because they're in my way or there's no where else to stare. ...sometimes they're wearing a cool shirt and I wonder where they bought it. Link to comment
ck Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 Why the hell would you look at someones face if there shirt is on their body, or their belly is hanging out? and agian why would you look at someone who's just too ugly, that would warent the question that maybe they are not that ugly if you girls keep breaking your necks to look at them? Link to comment
pineapplegirl Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Take it easy ck... >some women won't approach a man...they stare in hopes of communicating through ESP, "Come over here and talk to me, I promise I'll talk with you". >some women just like to people watch, and men are pretty darn entertaining when they don't know they are being watched >subtlety goes a long way, and some women stare because they are afraid of approaching you and getting humiliatingly rejected... Link to comment
Santa Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Seems obvious to me what the answer is, seeing as everyone is saying it. I think you knew the answer already CK, but you keep wanting to get reassured. Link to comment
wlfpack81 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I'm w/ck other than being attracted to a guy why in the world WOULD YOU STARE. All you're going to do is possibly send a mixed signal to the guy making him think you're interested when you're not. So if you don't find a guy attractive DON'T FREAKING STARE AND GIVE US MIXED SIGNALS. Thanks Link to comment
joe45 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 oh yea i was thinkin of doin this to a girl in one of my classes she was staring at me too- well i am a direct kinda of person so -"i now u like me"," i always see u looking at me", "how come u won;t go out on a date with me" - this way i think it is direct and right to the point. i might even say -"i saw u checkin me out" and when we talked u seemed really interested but i asked u out u said NO- proably just playin hard to get if i were u i be direct and to the poi9nt and tell em what u think and saw Link to comment
Kitz Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 alot of (straight and gay) guys wears tight clothing in japan, and they are very attractive.. Really? Damn Where I live, they only wear baggy t-shirts and shorts. Ah well. Link to comment
ck Posted November 6, 2004 Author Share Posted November 6, 2004 Take it easy ck... >some women won't approach a man...they stare in hopes of communicating through ESP, "Come over here and talk to me, I promise I'll talk with you". >some women just like to people watch, and men are pretty darn entertaining when they don't know they are being watched >subtlety goes a long way, and some women stare because they are afraid of approaching you and getting humiliatingly rejected... Well since I can't mind read and my first name isn't Cleo, I don't know how can they assume I know what they are thinking. Subtlety makes situations stay the same. Link to comment
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