How do you know if you're bothering someone?

[blueidealist24]

Anyway, another girl told me a thing or two about this girl that makes her a tad less appealing to me as a potential "date". Not to mention, I also have some personal theories (whether or not they're true, I have no clue) about this girl that, if I'm correct, I can definitely see that there's no chance of she deciding to date me. So, if there was still any doubt, I think I can safely say now that I'm pretty sure I could just be friends with her and be "okay". I do still want to be better friends with her, though.

 

I think maybe you were seeing her through an "idealist's glasses" before, when you really wanted to ask her out, and now you might be starting to see the real person, flaws and all.. this is good. I still think there's not a problem with being friends, especially when you lack friends at the time.

[MikNomis]

I think you analyze people and situations excessively, and that will get you into trouble if nothing else.