How to spice it up?

[johnyblaze]

I want to surprise my wife with something to keep our sex life interesting. The catch is i have a two year old daughter so it isnt always easy. She seems to be open to some suggestions, but has normally shyed away from anything beyond normal. Any ideas

[Justin Nutt, LMSW]

Honey dust, sensual oil, etc. Spice doesn't have to mean "beyond normal." These things can just add to the enjoyment.

[rlo619]

role playing it really does work and adds a unique characteristic in your relationships sex life

[Moontiger]

Blindfold.