Need some Guy Advice

[Tokanna]

Does it bother or annoy guys when girls text them everyday or would they rather just be left alone? Or would the guy rather text the girl first then her text him?

[AJEDrew7]

If I'm dating someone, it doesn't bother me. But, that's only if the texts aren't meaningless and aren't being sent just for the sake of texting. I think it becomes quite obvious when the texting crosses the bounds from acceptable to clingy too.

[Mr Man]

Everyone is different.

 

But I think most men like hearing from a woman they like, so text him if you want!

[lukeb]

Everyone is different and every relationship is different. I would just keep an eye out for signs to see if you are over doing it, and every once in a while let him make the first move to see if he is still interested.

[Thorshammer]

There should be a balance, there are enough people in on the break up forums that shows what happens with someone gets too needy and clingy. Personally, I like it. I DONT like it when we are fighting and she is sending me a billion texts.

[Generation]

I like it. If I don't respond back, simply means I'm busy with something, not annoyed. Overall, I think texting is great.

 

I'll hate it when they send me like responses like this:

and then they'll say something

and send another text

and then another idea fires in their head

and here comes another text

and before I get the chance to reply

another text

and I'll try to catch everything they say

but they keep sending the texts

and now I can't type

and messages keep pouring in

and then my phone will freeze

and I'll turn it off

and I'll turn it back on

and 20 more texts notifications show up

...

...

I hate that

[i19]

i like it, receiving texts from a girl shows she is interested and thinking about me, it makes me happy.

[laura40]

I like receiving texts off a man if we're dating. However too many texts can be clingy.

 

I dated someone ages ago who would text me and if I didn't reply within 10 mins he'd text me again. It would drive me crazy because sometimes I was genuinely busy and didn't have the time to have a conversation via text messages. He actually thought I'd gone off him if I didn't text back within a few minutes. Argh.

 

It ended due to different reasons but the constant texting didn't help. I like my space.

[Generation]

btw, I don't like BBM cause it shows you the other person read the message if they opened it, and I hate that because from both sides... it makes me wonder why they aren't texting me back and sometimes I won't feel like texting back right away and it'll send them the wrong message. I hate not having that privacy.

 

SMS > BBM