StarryMylo Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 I have a class with this guy which is once a week. We have finally after about a month gotten to the point where we can talk, but he is very shy- (& that is saying a lot since I am on the shy side as well!) Lots of things point in the direction of him liking me.. but shy guys are so hard to read! He flirts with me/teases with me; he does talk to me, but I usually have to initiate it.. once we start talking he does open up a bit, sharing about himself, but he still gets real nervous & fidgety w/ crossing, uncrossing his arms & moving around & stuttering. He laughs at my jokes, and vice versa. He seems to act more different towards me than other girls, and other people in the class. After we talk & joke around, he will look at me a lot & seems a lot more enthusiastic, & I'm sure he can see the same with me haha.. I am pretty & I think I may intimidate him.. but I am friendly & I genuinely like the guy so I think he may be able to tell. I know guys are not good at picking up the signs, but I make it known that I only have eyes for him, he is the only one I really look at, let alone flirt with. We seem like we would really click: same temperament, goofy personality, style, interests.. and I really REALLY want to get to know him! But time is clicking down & I only have 3 more classes with him until the semester is up. I have been giving him the signs & opportunities to see I am interested in him, but he hasn't taken the bait. I enjoy that we are taking things slow because I don't like jumping right out & saying "HEY WANNA GET COFFEE SOMETIME??" but at the same time, I want to know that it will happen! He always has a friend around, so that is a bit of a disadvantage on my part to ask him alone & then ask him out for coffee, or lunch.. whatever. So.. I think this guy likes me, (think being the key word), and I really want to get to know him, but with both of us being shy.. should I just ask him? I don't want to freak him out, but at the same time I think he would say yes.. I just have this gut feeling that he is interested too, but too shy to ask. I've just never asked a guy out so the idea of rejection & awkwardness scares me. What should I do? Do you think he likes me & I should just go for it? How to show a shy guy you want him to ask you out?? How to ask out a shy guy? Any help please! I really like him Link to comment
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