Kibit Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 I posted a little over a week ago about my Ex dumping me and leaving to return to his home 5 states away. So, I won't go into that again. We broke up about 10 days ago after a very heated argument. We had been in this LDR about 9 months until he decided to move here. I've wrestled with the emotions everyone else has been feeling on these forums, pain, anger, frustration, confusion, helplessness, etc.. I've looked over the situation with a fine-tooth comb and found mistakes I made, take responsibility for them, and realize this was not totally my fault. I did send clothes he left here via mail, no note, etc. We've not talked. I've learned, unfortunately, that two days after he returned home, which was just last week, he is back in a relationship with the girlfriend he had before me. He was with her for about four months before he dumped her and I did know him at the time so was completely privy to all their issues. The kicker is that, as he told me, this girl treated him like *hit. Not only that, but she is 7 months pregnant, and no it's not his. I did not beg, nor plead with him to stay and work things out. He treated me very coldly when he left, and I was the 'mature' one about the whole thing, wished him well, blah blah blah. Should I or shouldn't I send him an email telling him that I understand now why he acted so coldly, and that I was the freaking fool in this whole thing? Parts of me think I'll feel better -- other parts of me after reading through these forums tell me not to, it's a waste of time. Sometimes though it seems you just gotta say what you need to do be done with it all. Thoughts? Link to comment
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