Kibit

I did! I did!.......I read all these posts here on many different forums! I don't know, but perhaps, I resonated with your two posts and completely understand the 'feeling' while I can't fully appreciate your pain or what you've been thru cause I'm not you -- the feelings can definitely be similar. Keep the strength Meoww! and you're very welcome.

Meoww.....wow! As awful as this might sound, your 'rant' as you called it, was exceptional. I know I sound horrific for saying this, but I loved every single word you said -- I was cheering you on!!!! Isn't that awful of me? I know you've probably been thru tremendous pain, as have I, and I don't want you feeling as though I'm discounting that because I'm not. But -- your two posts in a weird sort of way lifted my spirits today. I'm grateful to you for putting a smile on my face, and I was actually laughing at one point (I haven't laughed in a while)-- not at you, but in a cheering way FOR you. I'm really glad you recognize wonderful qualities in yourself. Keep those thoughts on what you will and won't put up with for YOU.

I absolutely love this forum/post. It consistently gives me inspiration and courage. I've no doubt I will be writing several things I would love to say or write to my Ex. This is a process for us all. Dear Ex, Why the hell did you have to relocate from 5 states away, move in with me only to leave within 3 short weeks? Not only that, but to return home be back in just 3 days with your Ex before me, who, as you said, treated you like absolute * * * * and is pregnant with someone else's child? Seriously? You were in my home, in every room of my house, in my car, in my town, at my work, every freaking place. You run back home where I never was and have no reminders at all. I hate that most of all. You completely shut down, would not talk, treated me like I had some horrific disease, yet I tried and failed miserably to end things on a good note. You said, "I'm done, there's no point to be here, but can we still be friends?" Really? What an idiot I was/am. If I had the means, I'd move from here where I would have no reminders of you being in MY life. You invaded MY space, my heart, my mind and my body. Ugh, I am totally disgusted with myself and I hate walking around my house being reminded that you were here. I hope you're happy with your Ex. I hope you grow up and learn to actually FEEL something. I hate that you gave up and just quit when things got tough. What a jerk I was to believe in you.

After reading over many of these posts, I gotta say, this one STILL cracks me up!!!!! It feels so darned good to actually laugh!

This is what I'd like to write to my EX: Dear..."I'm sorry, what was your name again?"