thegirl_00 Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 My university class consists of 30 students. 27 of them are women, including myself. Last year one of the students decided she didn't like me for NO reason. It truly was no reason. Whenever I spoke she would cut me off and talk about something else. Unfortunately she is the "popular" girl of the class and everyone has taken her lead (Ya apparently it is STILL high school). If i say anything, everyone disregards it now, or simply wont respond to me. I am 23 years old and almost everyone is my class is 20. Ugh there is so much more to the story, but basically I am completely alienated in my class now and I only have one friend left. The girl who hates me always tries to get my only friend to go against me too so I feel like it wont be long before I have no one. This has also started to affect my everyday life. I play soccer and I don't talk to anyone there anymore, I volunteer and i avoid most people, even at work my clients have noticed a difference. My confidence is so low. I feel like I am a completely unlikable person and that there must be something wrong with me. I don't know how to deal with this. I have NEVER been bullied in my life and it is a very helpless feeling. I also feel like it is affecting my confidence in school because everyone makes a huge deal if i state my own opinion. I have now become a mute and don't say anything, even when we are supposed to be having discussion in class. I feel at a loss... Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.