maimai Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 My friend will marry a girl met online. They met in a chat room around 4 years ago, and they maintained the romantic relationship and transfered it in the real world. It sounds like a love story for me, I was so surprised when he informed me. Link to comment
Duderanomi Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Your point? In my opinion, cyber love is rather risky, what are the chances of the person being what the ysay they are? Link to comment
dpressedone89 Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 i've said it before and ill say it again, syber love is often the most beautiful form of love simply because often times they fall in love sight unseen, meaning they love each other for who they are, sure it is risky you should be careful but alot of people think that everyone who dates online is a crazed serial killer, there are far more normal people than there are weirdos out there just be very careful, im glad your friend found someone for him, take care -stitches aka The Antihero Link to comment
bruind Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 hey. thats nice. how i wish we'll end up like that... met mibe online as well... best wishes to your friend Link to comment
maimai Posted August 29, 2004 Author Share Posted August 29, 2004 My point? Um....I think there's only 1%%%%% will be successful. Is there anyone maintaining romantic relationship in cyberspace? Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 I am right there with Dpressed! And yes, I have been in a romantic online relationship for a while. Not four years, but a while. We have had the oportunity to meet in person, and so far things have been wonderful!!!!! I think the big reason that people think it can't work is because it's a movie plot, and we all know that the movies aren't real. But guess what, successful online relationships are happening all over the place. Link to comment
lolie Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Yes. There's me and my lover. We haven't met each other yet but we love each other. I dont really care what others may think about it, we are both adults and..you know how they say when you find love you definitely know its love? well I know. (i was replying to Maimai) Link to comment
bruind Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 same here maimai. met my bf online, we've been together for 13 months now, going on 14 on the 8th of sept. so far, everything's been so wonderful. never been happier, although we're apart most of the time. Link to comment
Mermaid Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 Met my guy online and things are going swimmingly. (Get it... swimmingly... mermaid...? meh...) In our case, we cultivated a friendship first (via the phone, internet and real-life time spent together) before it became romantic almost a year and a half later. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 LMAO! You're so funny! And there's another thing we have in common! I say "meh" all the time! LOL! Link to comment
Mermaid Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 LMAO! You're so funny! And there's another thing we have in common! I say "meh" all the time! LOL! You do?! My boyfriend and my mom are always like, "What the hell does 'meh' mean??" They think I'm alone in my meh-ing! *hugs her long-lost (and nine years younger) twin* Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 LMAO! Well you can tell them that they are wrong! MUAHAHAHAHA! MEH! Link to comment
OceanEyes Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 I think meeting potential partners online is a great idea and I know it's worked for a lot of people. However, I think it's unrealistic to consider yourself 'in love' with someone you've never met in person. Nothing beats a good old-fashioned face-to-face date! Link to comment
Mermaid Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 I think meeting potential partners online is a great idea and I know it's worked for a lot of people. However, I think it's unrealistic to consider yourself 'in love' with someone you've never met in person. Nothing beats a good old-fashioned face-to-face date! Couldn't have said it better myself. I've known several people who instantly fell "in love" with people they meet online but have never met in person (one girl who does it repeatedly); not only do I believe that to be implausible, but unsafe--both emotionally and physically. So meet (in a safe place) first, cultivate a relationship as friends, and then see where it goes. And PA, you know what they'd probably say to that? "Meh." Link to comment
maimai Posted September 2, 2004 Author Share Posted September 2, 2004 WOW...IT'S SO NICE TO HEAR YOUR REPLIES. AND I AM JUST WONDERING DID YOU MEET HIM/HER FOR ROMANCE OR COMMON FRIENDSHIP? ANYWAY, HOPE YOU ALL CAN FIND YOUR MR/MISS RIGHT ONLINE Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 Hmmm... that's a very good question. Let me put it this way: I wasn't looking for love, but I recognized it when it found me. Link to comment
maimai Posted September 9, 2004 Author Share Posted September 9, 2004 Well, what's the major reason you love him? I mean how this romantic relationship 'benefits' you? Link to comment
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