racer013 Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 ok im a 12 yr old boy(13 in march) and i relly like this girl that is 16 ... is she too old? i relly like her and when i flirt with her she doesnt relly mind..but she is 2 old rite?..and i cant stop thinking about her...every day...it drives me crazy.. Link to comment
i_hate_the_world47 Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 well,i wouldt say she is to old because my b/f is 16.But it also depends on if she is more mature han you.Just let things run the way they want for now.Dont push it. ~Meagan~ Link to comment
numba1rula643 Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 dude, WTF?!?!?!?!? u dont try to get wit som1 whos 16!!!!!!! its not rite!!!!!!!!! its disgusting and if she goes out with you or does anything with you its even more nasty i suggest u bak up she way too old........... Link to comment
Raiders79 Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 well i think it is too much of an age difference because shes an older girl and girl grow faster than boys so even though she is only 4 years older than you its actually like 5 to 6 years because of how much faster they grow than you. however i dont have any room to talk because when i was 14 i dated an 18 year old senior when i was a freshman... so it was the same age difference but not as much of a difference in maturity.(i was a VERY early bloomer though also... i started puberty when i was 11-12) Link to comment
DragonSlayerX Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 I dont care how old sum1 is unless its like 10 years apart thats to far but so i suggest u go for it Link to comment
aireyc Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Bleh, a toughy here. I don't see the age thing as being that much of a difference, but her being the older one may cause trouble. As long as you're just like "friends", even if you do date or whatever (still real weird), it shouldn't be bad. If you start messing around though... I think that is crossing the line at that age. Chris Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 Here's what I think. I'm very much an advocate for the "age doesn't matter" movement. But I think at your age it still does. Age doesn't matter when you're older because the maturity level in both genders begins to even out. But since guys mature about... what? Two years slower than girls? Really you're looking at a 6 year age gap as far as maturity. That is assuming she's not behind. Anyway, I think for your sake that you should stick to girls your age for a bit longer! Good luck! Link to comment
katykitten Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Im sorry to say this but at this point in time the age gap is too big. I cant be sure but this girl probably sees you as a cute guy who is great to talk to but not boyfriend material. It may suck but the truth is this relationship wont work but who knows, maybe if your still friends in a few years it might. Link to comment
cantthinkofone Posted September 6, 2004 Share Posted September 6, 2004 she proly sees you as a lil bro she never had, so drop it and move on trust me you will meet more girls later in life plus your life is only jus beginning live your life as a kid for right now dont worry bout dates and gfs you will get to do all that stuff soon the heart brakes the fights you dont want to go through you wont fined "the" perfect girl now so enjoy your childhood as much as you can for now. but having girls as friends is kool it will get you expirienced in wat you would want in a girl. Link to comment
Laura Ashley Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 Well....its going to be natural for you to have feelings for girls at what ever age you are, especially now your getting older. Your been very mature about this and thinking about this relationship so thats good. All I can suggest is you go for it, and if she's the right one so be it! if not well you will find the perfect someone! good luck! laura x Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 I'm with PA, age doesn't matter to a certain extent....the older you are the less it matters, but at 12....16 is too old. If it was you 16 and she was 20....maybe. Link to comment
bored Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 naw thats wrong if ur a girl then its still wrong...and since ur a guy..dont even think bout it...probably the reason she dun mind u flirtin wid her is cause ur so young and she dun take it serious Link to comment
smmrdwnmon Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 Are you even sure she likes you? It would probably be weird b/c girls mature faster than boys. You would probably be into totally different stuff. You should try to get someone your age and when YOU are 16, you can go out with a girl who is 16. Link to comment
smmrdwnmon Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 Oh yah, and even a girl who was 12 wouldn't go out with a guy who is 16. It just isn't done. Link to comment
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