new to this...need advice

[grinand bearit]

Hi all,

 

I appreciate any advice you offer about looking for people to date, etc., online. I have read the posts here and many are helpful.

I recently signed on with a service and have chatted with a few people. The problem I'm having is touching base with people whose online schedule is different from mine.

For example, there is a guy I've talked to a few times and he is alway very nice and seems interested, but is hard to pin down when I try to make a definite "date," so to speak, to talk again.

Should I try to accommodate his schedule? I am at a loss here.

Thank you for responding if you have comments.

[uj2004]

Try lengthy emails....they tend to be good. You can spen time on them, delete bits, get them right! Early on, you probably don't want too much downtime either, in the chance they are chatting to various others.

[dpressedone89]

yeah long emails are good plus ask him to pick a time and date if he chooses it he is more than likely going to stick to it but the lengthy emails work well.

-sTiTcHeS

[grinand bearit]

Thanks, guys. I'll give that a try. I hadn't before because I thought I would come accross as needy or something. I don't want anyone to think I'm a pain, you know?

Of course, I'm a big girl and what the heck do I have to lose anyway?!

 

Thank you all again!