Where To Go From Here?

[shanejeffery86]

During my Freshman year of high school, I met a girl. I didn't know then what kind of ride I was in for. During our freshman year of high school, we went out for six months. It was a very interesting relationship; we seemed to be fighting more than having fun. But, I guess that is what happens when you are immature. In the summer between our freshman and sophomore year, I broke up with her. I could never give her a good reason except for "My feelings for you have faded away." Of course, it wasn't actually true. So, over the past three years, we had chances of getting back together. Three times to be exact. The last time was May 2003. Now, she has just broken up with her boyfriend of six months about five days ago. And, for some apparent reason, I find myself trying to help her through it. I still love her and everything, but what do I do? Obviously, I cannot tell her now. I want her to know that I will always be here for her. I do want her back in my life. I want to take things slow; start off with a friendship. Hopefully, try to rebuild the bridges that have been burnt down. Plus, I am not sure that she is the same person that I am still in love with. I know I need to find that out. What I need to know, is how do I approach things with her? How do I let her know I care? How do I tell her that she is everything to me?

 

I thank you for your time.

[jessijess]

First things first...

You said yourself that your not sure if shes the same person you fell in love with. While being there for her during her hardship, re-get to know her. Find out for sure if she is the same person. & if she's not, if she's someone you could fall for still.

Hopefully after finding out who she is at this stage of her life, it will be easier to proceed with everything else

Good luck with everything

[Alabama]

It seems now that you are definetly good friends. I would help her through her relationship that has just ended. These kind of things really do take time. I am sure maybe she will see your kindess towards her, and maybe like you again. Good luck!