Virgin Likes Non-Virgin

[justlikeyou]

So this is the short of it: I am a girl, and I want to wait until I am married and I only want to be with a virgin. I am 21, and the guy I am interested in has been with 2 girls. Should I give up and not pursue anything? Thanks for any advice you can offer me.

[Caldus]

Hang on, you say that you want a virgin yet you like a non-virgin? Guess I misread your post. Just go for it anyway and see how it goes.

[brokenpogostick]

if he's a nice guy then why not give him a chance. if he pressures you for sex when he knows you want to wait i'd prolly think about getting rid of him then, but i'd say give him the benefit of the doubt.

[JonnyG]

I don't see it working sorry. If u want to wait til marriage before sex thats fine. But to expect another guy to wait 2 years+ (The minimum at your age to wait til marrying someone in my opinion) before having sex when hes used to having it, is unlikely to happen.

[-Rocky BALBOA-]

Exactly... I think you should do what Joshs_badkitty said.

[Openminded]

Have to agree. Id say go for it, but expect pressure and let the other person know up front about your issues. Im in the same boat as that guy, but i dated the 2 girls for almost 7 years total. I am also 24. I am about as committed as they come, and at this point I think I know what it takes to make a relationship work. He might be the greatest guy in the world...lord knows I loved both of my ex's. Things happen, people change...experience can make a relationship work.

[Newfoundglory]

If he really does like you then it shouldnt matter to him at all, in my opinion at least.... then again thats me.

[justlikeyou]

Thanks guys, that does help. He is a nice guy, and I think I will go for it. Wish me luck, this'll be the second time I have ever kissed anyone. Oh gosh. Have a good holiday weekend if you are in the USA. Bye.