Boyfriend is on holidays

[katykat26]

My boyfriend went to Vegas yester for 10day ever since he left i've been crying not sleeping not eating feeling sick. I miss him sooo much, how can i make these 10 days go really fast!

 

Thanks

Kate

[vertigoxo]

Get busy and call some friends. Do something fun and remember that he'll come back and you'll have great sex afterward.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Why are you so torn up about this?

 

It's 10 days. Relax. Go out with your friends. Do those things you can't do when he's around (books you want to finish, restaurants he doesn't like) and enjoy your "me' time. He'll be back before you know it.

[katykat26]

thanks guys!

[hockeyboy]

Do you two spend every waking minute together when he's home?

 

Honestly, it's okay/normal to miss him, but it seems you are much to dependent on him.

 

I hope you have friend/hobbies/etc for yourself?

[Cognitive_Canine]

I don't mean to be callous, but I spend a good 4 months at a time where I don't see my boyfriend (long distance). So, it's hard for me to understand how 10 days makes you this miserable.

 

Even during the 4 month long separation, we don't spend our time depressed and crying.

 

It isn't going to make him come home any sooner and it's just not healthy. Be happy. Have fun. He will be much happier to come home to an independent, happy girlfriend rather than a desperately crying, dying-inside one.

[-Sanguine-]

I don't mean to be callous, but I spend a good 4 months at a time where I don't see my boyfriend (long distance). So, it's hard for me to understand how 10 days makes you this miserable.

 

Even during the 4 month long separation, we don't spend our time depressed and crying.

 

It isn't going to make him come home any sooner and it's just not healthy.

 

Wasn't it harder for you in the beginning, though?

When I did 40 days away from my boyfriend, by the end I was getting quite upset. Perhaps if this is a young relationship it could be harder. I remember the first time I left for 10 days I missed him very much. But now 10 days seems like nothing.

[SapphireNoir10]

10 days apart is normal in a relationship. You should be busy with work? friends? activities? hobbies?

 

Pick up something you enjoy and just keep busy.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Wasn't it harder for you in the beginning, though?

When I did 40 days away from my boyfriend, by the end I was getting quite upset. Perhaps if this is a young relationship it could be harder. I remember the first time I left for 10 days I missed him very much. But now 10 days seems like nothing.

 

At the end of the first year, it got hard (mostly because we couldn't see an end to the LDR in sight at that point).

 

But, even when it was in the last few days of the 4th month, I wasn't depressed and crying.

 

I can't think of a time I was crying and unable to function due to missing a partner.

[-Sanguine-]

At the end of the first year, it got hard (mostly because we couldn't see an end to the LDR in sight at that point).

 

But, even when it was in the last few days of the 4th month, I wasn't depressed and crying.

 

I can't think of a time I was crying and unable to function due to missing a partner.

 

Hmm, yeah. Guess everyone reacts differently, whether it's healthy or not.

[ariesgirl]

I would be concerned if I couldn't sleep/stop crying from not seeing my boyfriend for 10 days. Maybe you need to learn to be alone? Do you have girlfriends you can call up and hang out with? It just doesn't seem to be that healthy.