exboyfriend kept playing emimen's "love the way you lie"

[fawndango]

Interestingly enough, not sure if he meant that he was the abuser or I was the abuser. Was he enimem or was he rhianna, that song def describes our relationship (verbal and mental mind games) but we couldn't seem to end it. Seems he was the volcano and I was the tornado. Our relationship became * * * for tat.

 

He fed on all of my insecurities by saying "everyone cheats, and he wanted to hurt me before i hurt him, everyone flirts etc. I tried to hurt him by breaking up with him twice, but couldn't leave. I think its finally over, and it ended peacefully, and i am leaving things alone. I'd rather a peaceful breakup than a mean one, seems like those ones haunt you for forever.

 

All this drama because he tried to manipulate me into being a nonserious girl, and i tried to get him to be a serious guy, hidden within a relationship where we were boyfriend and girlfriend in a nonserious relationship dating exclusively. Things tend to get a little nutty...think I am ready for normal again. Whew.

[Xylitol]

Well its good you came to the conclusion that both of you aren't on the same frequency, you two were only damaging eachother.