mermayd Posted June 25, 2004 Share Posted June 25, 2004 My bf of 2 years and I are both sorta bored of sex. What kind of stuff do you do to keep the flame roaring? When I think about what we HAVE done, its not boring. We have tried many many different positions, included toys, exchanged dom/sub role, done it in different places... I need some new and exciting tips. One thing that I have tried recently that seems to be good for him is massaging his prostate during sex. But I need something new so it doesnt get overdone and boring. I only get eager for sex when I have a new idea to try out. He gets eager when he knows it wont be the "same old thing" so as you can see, a few tips and tricks would be appreciated by us both. Please advise. thanks Link to comment
brokenpogostick Posted June 25, 2004 Share Posted June 25, 2004 have you thought about threesomes? Link to comment
JonnyG Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 2 years and u are bored and have trioed everything already . I wouldnt do that 3some stuff. Could really mess up your relationship. Perhaps u should try to stop having so much sex, so that each time u do it your looking more forward to it. I think som1 was talking about a book with 100 sex games in it. She said it was really good. Not sure who it was tho Link to comment
brokenpogostick Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 oh, i'm sorry...i guess i figured that if they've been together for 2 yrs they're prolly pretty comfy with each other. yeah, i agree that it's not for everyone by any means...but i've heard it's rather exciting..and it's just sex anyway. i have a book called 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed and it's a good one. there's also "the art of seduction", "great sex for life" and others that can be found in any bookstore... may i suggest watching porn together or surfing the internet for porn together...that always give my bf & i ideas when we're fresh out. have you tried tying each other up? Link to comment
mermayd Posted June 26, 2004 Author Share Posted June 26, 2004 we dont have sex all that often. not as often as one might think or even hope...but thats sorta ok, as long as it is exciting when we DO do it. threesomes arent out of the question. I'm working on that but it will take a while. (even w/ girl on girl action...) we have looked at porn together and surfed the net together AND on our own time. I would love to try bondage and we have dabbled in it...sorta. But he finds it to be too cliche to be creative.... Link to comment
JonnyG Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 Food? Anal? risky sex outside? Link to comment
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