digger11 Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 So I got into a DUMB fight with my boyfriend on monday. He ignored my calls for a for hours but we eventually talked without much resolution. I was really upset and told him to call me when he figured out what he wanted. There has been no contact since then. Today I wrote him that I missed him and hope we could talk soon. No response....that was four hours ago. I know it's not that long, but I just get SO stressed when I'm in rifts with people. I hate that about myself. My mood is so dependent on how my personal relationships are going. I feel anxious if I THINK people are mad. When my best friend caused (truly, her fault in a drunken rage) a fight between us and I had to reexamine our friendship.... the entire month to 1.5 months I was SO stressed about it. i know it's because I care for these people, so it's not necessarily a bad thing, but it is when it adversely effects me. How can I not let it affect me so much? What should I do with the bf situation? I just feel like... if he doesn't want to do this anymore then I want to know immediately so I can just shut myself off... Thanks for listening, I am feeling pretty lonely at the moment. Link to comment
ItsmeShane Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 maybe just give him a little bit of time? that usually works for me. he cant stay mad at you forever. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 Does your boyfriend normally need a lot of time to cool down? What was the fight about? How long have you last talked to him? Link to comment
digger11 Posted July 2, 2010 Author Share Posted July 2, 2010 cognitive.... i tried sending you a PM but for some reason it won't go thru. I am really paranoid about posting on here. can you PM me your email and I can send you what I wrote? I would really appreciate your advice... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 2, 2010 Share Posted July 2, 2010 cognitive.... i tried sending you a PM but for some reason it won't go thru. I am really paranoid about posting on here. can you PM me your email and I can send you what I wrote? I would really appreciate your advice... Hey, already PM'd you. All three of your messages went through. But, I didn't have time to send anything back until today. Sorry. Did you get my message I just sent? Link to comment
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