I need help with this strange situation that happen to me today

[Jay_Bird]

I was at golden coral eating with my family

 

and everyone was about done eating,then all of a sudden I seen my ex-girlfriend walk in with her family and husband,and me and her caught eye contact (havent seen her in like a year or two)

 

and they all sat at the table right in front of us,so her and her family went and got their food,and sat back down at the table in front of us

 

but my ex and her husband never came back to the table with her family

 

come to find out when I was walking out,they sat at another side of the golden coral instead of in front of us,when I was walking out to the parking lot,I could see out the cornor of my eye her staring at me

 

why did she get up and go to another table?

[pumpkinmoon]

I hate to say it but she is married now and what she does shouldn't bother you.

 

But to answer your question, she obviously didn't feel comfortable being that near you for whatever reason.

[IGlareOften]

Agreed...On both points.

[Jay_Bird]

I know it doesn't matter

 

and I know she married,I don't want her

 

but why wouldn't she feel comfortable around me,I havent seen her in 2 years

 

its not like I want her or anything

 

I just wondered why she did that

[twinklingstars]

If I was in her situation, coming into a situation like that, I'd have done the same thing. And watch you leave to know you've left and rejoin the rest of the people I'd come with.

She is doing exactly what someone is supposed to do that has moved on, and she was probably hoping you wouldn't have seen her, she's leaving the past behind. If it were longer than 2 years, like 10, she'd probably walk in, sit down, look around and do a double take, maybe triple take and recognize you, and just not look your way. But a couple years after and that reaction makes sense.

[pumpkinmoon]

If I was in her situation, coming into a situation like that, I'd have done the same thing. And watch you leave to know you've left and rejoin the rest of the people I'd come with.

She is doing exactly what someone is supposed to do that has moved on, and she was probably hoping you wouldn't have seen her, she's leaving the past behind. If it were longer than 2 years, like 10, she'd probably walk in, sit down, look around and do a double take, maybe triple take and recognize you, and just not look your way. But a couple years after and that reaction makes sense.

 

I have to agree. I wouldn't be comfortable sitting that close to an ex if I were with someone else.

[Jpo]

I feel weird around all my exes regardless of the time gap lol. I typically try to avoid them.

[misssmithviii]

I think what she did was respectful to you and your family as well as herself and her husband. She avoided any possibility of social awkwardness and gave both parties their space.

 

I would've done the same thing.

[luminousone]

Maybe her husband was uncomfortable.

 

Anyway, she is married. Only she knows why they moved, and it is just best to let it go and move on...

 

Maybe she thought you were staring at her....