tate Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 Hi, I am at the moment having a huge panic attack, I feel like my hearts about to jump out my chest! I know I shouldn't have, but i went into my boyfriends facebook messages, and have now found a load of messages to and from one of his exes! He tells her he's "sooooo pleased she contacted him after he had searched for her for ages on myspace and facebook" he said that he "thinks of her often, maybe too much" says that his "mother still says that letting her go was the biggest mistake he has ever made" and the worst bit! He said he "has to agree with her"!!!! He told her he was "jealous of the guy that captured her heart" how "great she looked in her photo(not suprisingly)"and he signed it "love always". She spoke of some intimate moments they had and how good they were for eachother even though they had some bad times.... the last message was only a few months ago, but they had swapped email addresses in that message, so I now think they are talking through hotmail. At the time he wrote all this to this woman, we had already been together for a year and 4 months! I don't know what to do, I want to confront him, but in doing so, I will have to tell him that I betrayed his trust hugely! But what about the fact he has been sending these messages and betraying my trust for months! I am very insecure, andwe always talk about our relationship, he always says that I am perfect for him, that he adores me, and that he doesn't want anyone else and is looking forward to our future........how do I know this isn't all lies????????????? Link to comment
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