DtD Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 Here's the story: She and I were pretty close and were getting to know each other over a month or so. We shared plenty in common, and we were interested in learning new things about each other and try new things. We had similar and rival passions that kept us together and kept times fun. She's a rocker girl and often hosts shows for bands. That is how we actually first met. But for this last show, she pulled me outside and gave me some info that her ex-boyfriend, whom she had broken up with because of her leave for the army, was going to make an appearance and try to get back together with her. I thought nothing much of it, just a little heads up that some guy was going to be hassling her and I shouldn't make a fuss of it. Instead I guess she was telling me that she would be accepting to his request, and a few hours later I saw her in his arms kissing him. Obviously, I was torn about it and instead of bringing forth a confrontation there, I just texted her some notes of my disappointment and made my way off. I don't compete for women, so to me, she chose someone else just like that, I was pissed, but I went my own way once again. That was just this previous weekend... Well I guess just recently, her guy screwed her over and now they are done for good. okay. Today I received a message from her, she had been talking with a mutual friend, an ex of mine, and said she was sorry, she regrets her actions and asks if there is any possibility of giving her another chance. I don't want to give in and just be a silver medal to her, but part of me still can't get her out of my head and wants to get back together with her... Any tips on what I should say? I don't want to come off cold and just say "I guess" or appear needy and just say "I'll take you back". This is the first time I'm actually conflicted on a matter like this. Link to comment
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