jellysandwich Posted May 17, 2010 Share Posted May 17, 2010 By "NC", I mean "good bye emails" lol. She just gave a simple, "hey, you there?" while I was out. It's weird. My gut instinct told me to say something short and simple, like a "sup?". I would be fine whether or not she responds; I won't be affected by whatever she says. What I am worried about though, is that if I don't respond, she won't ever contact me again. Funny, considering I never expected her to contact me in the first place. So.... to respond or not to respond. Cliffnotes: -Planned trip to visit her in May (LDR Singapore) -She broke up with me end of March -Begged, pleaded, etc -Maintained NIC/LC for trip -She gives CLEAR signs (doesn't regret breaking up, wants me to move on, wants to be friends, etc) -I decided not to go on trip -Sent "good bye, wish you the best" email (no mention of canceled trip) -(I think) she waited for me at airport anyway -She sends me a "I waited for you but you're not coming, good bye, wish you the best" email -I feel bad making her go and wait for me (due to my vague email) -I sent email apologizing and offering to explain why I canceled -She never responds, so I gave up and figured we'd never talk ever again -She IM'd me after 2 weeks NC Link to comment
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