JuniorSticks Posted May 15, 2010 Share Posted May 15, 2010 (sob story: ) I'm having that recurring feeling of being discouraged. I'm 21, in college, and I don't have a GF. Raise it up a notch: I've never had a GF, never been on a date. Back in high school, I avoided the whole dating/highschool relationship game that they all played, under the impression I had no business getting into any relationships at that age. Another thing I keep in mind is... don't mess around... if you can't see yourself spending the rest of your life with them, don't waste your and their time by leading them on. Also, I believe in abstinence, but I'm pretty darn sure that hasn't been my problem I've been asked out once (in high school), turned her down since I wanted to wait... and I didn't really find her attractive anyways (I knew her for a while before). (end of history) I've always sort of figured I'd end up meeting someone and gradually turning that into a relationship... but theres a problem... I don't meet many people. There's not many female programmers (programming, thats what I do). I don't go to bars, so I don't meet anyone there, and the nature of programming keeps me relatively holed up. I'm a pretty agreeable guy, I could keep up my appearance a tad better, but it seems pointless to do so for my audience of nobody. Of course, I've also thought about online sites like... eharmony or stuff like that. I just don't care to go broadcasting to the world about my sexual preferences, things... and its probably just my own bias, but it always seemed that those sites are full of people who just want to get it on in bed. (While I certainly wouldn't mind that, ) thats not really the main reason I want a GF... if that makes any sense. I probably sound rather confused. I'm just looking for advice... (I think) thanks! Link to comment
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