negative feelings after proposing

[johnjacob]

please to delete.

[DN]

Do you love her - you didn't mention that part of the relationship?

[testcase]

.... Well I'm guessing she said not right now and left the country? I'm not sure what happened here but I think the thing is girls want you to propose because you want to propose. When you do it like that it seems kind of like your doing it because you think that's what she wants. I mean the whole situation seems kind of rushed and probably was not that romantic.

 

So whats been her behavior recently?

[johnjacob]

please to delete.

[DN]

@DN: What is love? I feel incapable of feeling how people seem to feel in tv and movies. On the other hand I feel attached to her and do what I can to support her in every way.

 

I can't tell you what love is - who can? But I can tell you what it isn't - and 'being attached' isn't.

[epicproportion]

What are the circumstances of the relationship? How did you meet? Why have you not moved in teogether after 6 years? These are details that would help to analyze her response as well as your current hesitation.