FTW Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 Hi, My girlfriend of 3 years and I have recently broken up, her reasoning being that it hasnt been a relationship for a while. We never went out together, we didnt have a sex life, most nights consisted of me playing online poker and her chatting online to her friends. The thing is in 2 years living together we never really went out anywhere because we couldnt reallly afford it, we spent most of our time online(sad lives i know lol, but we actually met in a chat room). So anyway getting back to the point, she wasnt happy with our relationship and me like a fool was just carrying on as normal not noticing anything wrong(besides the lack of sex). She says she still loves me but she doesnt feel anything for me anymore, whatever that means. Now here is where it gets complicated, i want her back more than anything and i realise i should give her some space but the problem is i havent moved out! I have no family to live with, nor do i have any friends in the area so she has let me stay for now. We also have a baby son together which might be another reason she is letting me stay. So while i realise i should be giving her some space i cant really, other than sitting in another room which i have been doing in an evening after the baby is in bed. So my question is, how can i possibly win her back when we are still seeing each other everyday? I figure if i can get the feelings back that she has lost for me there may still be hope but anything i try is going to be seen as an attempt to reconcile which i fear will make things worse. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Link to comment
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