Too scared to get involved.

[kolfan]

I have this overwhelming fear of getting involved with anyone after a recent spate of dating "bad" men. If I meet someone who seems nice, I constantly have this negative feeling and wonder when it'll go wrong. How do you overcome this? I sometimes feel it's safer to be alone, that way, less chance of getting hurt.

[Hermes]

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Please read this very useful article.

 

You have to ask yourself why you are drawn to unsuitable men, and address that problem. Get advice there in the real world if you can, through a counsellor or advisor.

 

Take care

Hermes