Should I call him?=

[RRISALEE]

My ex that I have not talked to in 3 months calls me out of the blue. He left a message and so I called him and left a message. But He hasn't returned my call yet. Should I call him back or wait for him to call me?

[Ated]

I would say let him call back. Because if he hasn't called you back... maybe he's having second thoughts. Also, if YOU call, he might think that YOU want him back (even if its true), but you might get hurt cos he might not be ahppy to hear from u. It's up to u. But since he called u first, he'll call back again. I think ur doing good the fact that u haven't called him. Ur still healing, don't let him take control over u again! If u don't call, he'll see u as strong and able to move on without him!

[RRISALEE]

Thanks for the advice. But now I want my phone call. I have prayed for it and stopped praying since march. But now O'm thinking why did he call me? What does he want or does he want to shoot the breeze. Yes I do want to see if it can work again but i just want him to call me and say I want to make things work.

[DealingWithIt]

You left him a message so the ball is in his court. Don't call him again. He called you for a reason so just sit back live your life and don't wait by the phone waiting for him to call.

[xxatti]

You left him a message so the ball is in his court. Don't call him again. He called you for a reason so just sit back live your life and don't wait by the phone waiting for him to call.

 

Agreed.