i saw a girl name on his notebook!!

[sugababe]

hi everyone....i'm inlove with this guy and we've been together for almost 5 month now...i love him..im crazy inlove with him, he's everything to me and ..i thought he really loved me before, but now im really confused after seeing a girl name written on his notebook!!!!...when i saw it he didnt tell me that he's the one who wrote he actually lied and said," its not me my friend wrote it"...i know that he's lieing coz i've seen it before somwhere else...i went up to the guy today and asked him if he's the one who wrote and he said no its ur bf... and he also told me that he wrote it before u guys got together...its old and that this girl is like a sister to him!!!....i dont know what to do, if she's really just a sister to him then why did he lie!!....my friends told me that he's doing this becoz he doesnt want to hurt you and that he cant just tell u yes i wrote it!!!!

 

i dont know what to do..i had a lot of problems with him becooz he's these kind of guys that loss their tongue infront of their gf(thats what one of my close boy friends told me abt him).... my friend also told me that yes he loves me sooo much from the wy he looks at me in class....but after seeing this girl name on his notebook and i think that she's his ex, i stopped believing that he loves me...what should i do!!!

[DSM]

u know what u should do u should talk to him about it and see what is he gona say and ask him y did u lie c his reasons y he lied maybe ur frnds r right but u should talk to him and c what is he gona say .... but if u dont talk to him u will keep crying everysingle day and if u had any big small problem u HAVE to talk to him dont be afraid

[sugababe]

hey DSM..thx for ur reply!!

 

i cant talk to him...what should i tell him, hey why did u write it he's gonna tell me i didnt!!...what should i say when he does that...and i also dont wanna talk to him becoz he's very moody and he'll get mad and we will get into a big fight!!

[DSM]

im just telling u TALK to him just ask him y did he lie and u know u could tell hi ur frnd saw it on his other book and u know his hand writing and u know that he knows that girl so its not ur fault its his fault if u didnt talk ur frnds r gona get mad at u .. cuze they dont like to c u pissed pr mad or whatever u want to call it so talk to him and solve problems out do not shut up 4 anything he does u dont like .. 1 question does he shut up 4 u when u do something wrong?

[sugababe]

the answer to ur question is: NO

[DSM]

then u dont shut up 4 him do the same thing as he does when u do something wrong he tells u he talks to u but u dont talk to him ... its gona be better 4 u if u talk to him .. r u scared of him or something if u r why guys doesnt eat trust me even if guys eat they eat cuze they think u r a honey they think u r the best so believe me talk to him u will feel better ur relationship is gona be better .. and if u kept doing that he is gona get used to it that u dont talk to him about anything ... and try to listen to ur frnds 4 once if u can cuze i know what ur frnds feel like i would never like seeing MY best frnd get hurt like u if u were my best frnd i would give u the same advice so go 4 it