Hannibal Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 Well my ex and I have started to talk again. Today we went out for lunch together and had a really good time. I noticed that she has started to wear the ring that I gave her again, she took it off after we broke up but now its back on. She and her other ex were thinking of getting back together but she told me today that she wants to move on from him. In her online diary she wrote something about how her and this guy always knew exactly how the other was feeling (but i think of his lips and his eyes, and how he knew exactly what i meant exactly exactly exactly we'd say and it doesn't seem so sad anymore -Thats the excert, and she always talked about my eyes.) . However she doesn't mention any names what so ever, I know its not a new guy because the title of the entry is "I swear I'll never hurt you again", also i think it might be about me because the url ends in ciggarettes (I'm the only guy that she's dated that smokes). I think that maybe she might be coming around and wanting to start dating again. She also said today that she missed us haning out and being together. Now I'm stuck, I don't really know where to go from here. I want to ask her out on a date sometime really soon but I don't want to scare her away. Any advice is gladly welcomed! Link to comment
Meow18 Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 It seems to me that she does want something again. I think you should just continue hanging out with her a lot. Talk to her a lot. See how things go from there. If she's wearing your ring, thats a good sign that she wants you back. When things start going well, tell her you still have feelings for her. If she doesn't tell you anything back, ask her how she feels. Just keep talking to her & hanging out with her. Show her that you are still interested in her. Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 20, 2004 Author Share Posted May 20, 2004 I just talked to her and she said that I made her day today............ Any thoughts on this? Also today she took something of mine and kind of played cutsie keep away.... Link to comment
kungfumaster Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 Also today she took something of mine and kind of played cutsie keep away.... Aaaawwww young love starting up again - just take it slow okay Hannibal. No expectations - just go with the flow - and if things work out, great - if they don't, there will be plenty of time for you to find someone else to play "cutsie keep away with" Best wishes, Kung fu Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 That's what I'm trying to do right now.... More replys please! Link to comment
QTpie87 Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 well i would go ahead and talk to her about it, tell her you have been thinking of asking her out again and ask her how she would feel about that. maybe tell her if she needs more time to just hang out and be friends again first that might help her feel more comfortable about it. well maybe that was about you though, would that be a good thing to you? or not? well i hope everything works out and you two will be happy together. love Qtpie87 Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 I think that might be a good idea, however not right now because we just started to really talk recently. I'm really afraid I'll sit on this to long and loose her all over again. Link to comment
Singer Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 I think just keep doing what you are doing & let things develop on their own. If you try to talk to her about it, she might get scared off. By her reactions it sounds like you are doing fine. Keep things casual & light, & happy. Judging by your descriptions of her recent actions, it sounds like she could working her way back. Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 Alrighty, sounds good to me. Also one last thing, reccently I've gone through a suicidal stage in my life and I'm still constantly fighting depression. I want to talk to her about it so bad but I'm not sure weather I should or not because once again I do not want to scare her off or anything like that. Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 Just a quick update, I looked at her finger today and the ring was still on.... Link to comment
Singer Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 You are right, talking to her about your depression could scare her off, esp. because she is still in the ambivalent stage right now. That would be best saved for sometime way, way down the road. It is a good sign that she's wearing the ring. Just keep doing what you're doing. (And not doing ) Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 22, 2004 Author Share Posted May 22, 2004 I'm wondering on how much contact I should be making with her now. I asked her to go out for coffee tonight (not a date or anything) and she bailed on me. We have plans for next tuesday to go watch the hockey game...... Any suggestions as to if i should call her or let her phone me etc. Link to comment
Singer Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 You want to go very slowly right now. If it were me, I would wait until Sunday night or maybe even Monday, then call her to confirm plans for the hockey game on Tuesday. Keep it short and sweet. Link to comment
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