CamDoggie Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Ok so I went 9 days of NC, and yesterday I de-friended her on facebook. I had no intention of breaking NC either. However there she goes messaging me saying "why did you de-friend me? That was immature." I wrote a short response basically saying I need you out of my life, but you will always have a place in my heart, and that I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Pissed....Well...Day 9 now of NIC, day 1 NC Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Hey let it slide, we all mess up... tomorrow is another day... you will do better.... and believe me this is coming from someone who messed up NC SOOOOOO TOTALLY... I will NEVER let myself do it again.. And yeah, bottom line is: Be strong, you are doing just fine! Link to comment
bish0p2004 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 In the grand scheme of things, I think your reply was good. Very mature and in control. Now, just stay with NC. Link to comment
markie b Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 by doing what you done and removing her from facebook was a good thing!contact or not it was another step closer to full closure and carrying on! you were honest with your response and to the point and it would be understandable for anyone to feel the way you do and done the thing you did if anything you should be proud you had the courage to be able to wipe her from facebook have you blocked her aswell? hang in there and have a good christmas if you can! Link to comment
Spondence Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 'Immature' to de-friend someone...lmfao! What has this world come to.... Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 I broke NC too.. but hey, hang in there! We're human. Now you have more power to start from scratch Link to comment
l9grl Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 she's just pissed you made a healthy decision for yourself - be proud man! Link to comment
CamDoggie Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 She messaged me again wondering if she can give me her Christmas gift, but I told her that I needed to decline, because another memory from her would only set me back. Link to comment
l9grl Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 she isn't respecting your boundaries...that's not cool is there any way to block her from messaging you? Link to comment
vertigoxo Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 She sounds like a psycho. "Do as I say or you will be crudely stamped on with the label "Immature" by me!" Link to comment
CamDoggie Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 Great now she just made this hard again. After declining to her giving me a gift, she messages me this morning saying that she understands, the proceeds to tell me what the gift is. Apparently she got me a really expensive pen with my name engraved in it because she noticed on a vacation we took together that I saw this pen and I thought about the day that I might become a doctor (ive been in school awhile lol). So she ended up getting it for me when I wasn't looking, when she didn't even have barely enough money for it. She ended it with saying goodbye, and that I should never give up on my dreams and that she hopes that I attain them. So what the heck? What does she want from me? I have been really good with the NC, and now shes contacting me left and right! She just won't leave me alone, and I was over her but now I am hurting again! She is ****ing a new guy just days after we broke up so I am never going back, but WT F is going on?!? Link to comment
Louie3 Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 * * * is going on is that she sees that you are over her (or even if you're not, it looks that way to her). When she thought she could play, she did, but now that she sees herself losing you she wants to make nice. Link to comment
CamDoggie Posted December 26, 2009 Author Share Posted December 26, 2009 This whole situation is f'ed up. I wish I had a time machine to launch myself to next Christmas, maybe around then I would have someone new Link to comment
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