How do I ask a woman on MSN if she wants to meet?

[sanadee]

the question sounds like a no-brainer, but there is more to it than that.

 

For about nine months now, i've been chatting with a woman on MSN (we met in link removed). She seems nice, and i want to ask her to meet sometime.

 

The thing is, I don't know how to build up to doing so. I think we have a bit of a rapport, but i don't want to jeopardise anything by being too forward and putting her off.

 

Obviously, in life we should employ tact, so how should I be tactful here?

[thetruth]

after 9 months a small suggestion isn't to forward. if it ruins anything, it probably wasn't going to go there at all.

 

start by saying that you have really enjoyed talking, etc. then the next day or two later , move on to you would like to see her sometime. , then a day or two later move into xyz is going on next weekend (not too soon, give more time than you normally would before the meeting) and i was wondering if you'd want to go.

[dr_styles]

Don't people usually go MSN/chat -> Phone -> Meet?

(real question, just what I've heard and makes sense)