wondering what the signs are for being gay?

[avustt]

my boyfriend and i have been together for three years and we never have sex anymore and i recently found him looking at guys in thongs on the internet. i already know he has a fetish for male and female thongs and im fine with that, but do u think there is a chance he is gay? he doesent act like it but i doubt hes cheating on me, i have my reasons for thinking hes not. he says hes just not sexual even though he masturbates and looks at porn, what do u guys think?

[pip]

Of course there's a chance he's gay, or at least bisexual. But don't jump to any conclusions. There are heaps of people out there who might fantasize about the same sex, but that doesn't necessarily make them gay.

 

I think you should talk to him about it. I wouldn't flat out ask him 'are you gay?', but perhaps you could bring up your sex life and ask him if he's happy with things. I think you need to put your mind at ease. You also need to ask yourself if you're comfortable with what he's doing. Do you mind him looking at guys' thongs? Is it okay with you if he does have a bit of a gay streak? If so, great. But if not, talk with him.