flirting with your friend you have always loved

[quinny2424]

I have always felt this strong feeling with this girl in my school. Shes a junior in high school and im a sophmore in the same school. We met last year and have been really close ever since. I gave her signals that i have liked her alot and even told her. She never diened likeing me but never said she liked me. She said that we are really great friends and if she ever lost me she would be devestated. She doesnt like to like people cuz after you brake up its weird when you talk. So what should my next move be? should i keep flirting and try to get an answer out of her or just become friends. I tried the whole friends thing and it was really hard to do cuz i love her so much and knowing that shes right there and i can ever get her just kills me well id really appreciate it if som1 could helpp me pleasee?

[gogol]

hi, quinny2424,

 

pm me your AOL or MSN account name

 

i was in a situation EXACLTLY the same as yours. from what you've said so far, its ECAXTLY the same. right now, this girl and i are going out, so i may be able to help.

[Suavemantotherescue]

To me, it sounds like your friend isn't ready for a relationship with you because shes afraid to loes your friendship. However, if you really want to get with her you should give her complaments every week or so. Don't tell her anything big at first, something little. EVery week, you sould tell her something alittle more meaningful until she feels comfortable with you then you can tell her.

Anyother good way to make her feel more comfortable with a relationship is to be with her and tell her you'll always be there for her when shes hurt and stuff. She'll know she can trust you and be more likely to like you.

Hope that helps.

[therethisgirl..]

im in the same situation and i havent got a clue what to do, i havent got two braincells to rub together when it comes to things like this..