it's still hurting her....

[ChrisYellowV6Stang]

me and my girlfriend both started having sex about 7 months ago, both of us virgins b4hand. anyway it hurt her, of couse, the first month or so, but recently it's just goten to start hurting more...and after we have sex it really hurts her...and i know shes wet enough...trust me i know ...lol...but anyone have ideas?

[cmr]

you must be a big boy then-

 

try lots of lube- no matter how wet she is

[neva_black_n_white]

im going to have to agree with the above, vesides its going to be a matter of trial and error until she becomes more comfortable with it, its better to try everything, it wont hurt will it?

 

good luck.

kel

[The Morrigan]

Lots of lube (sometimes "wet" doesn't give as much anti-friction as a good luibe) - and try positions where she has more control over the speed and penetration (like her on top), let her set the pace and see what gets uncomfortable. The more she's anticipating the pain, the more she's going to tense up instinctively, which WILL make it hurt. Throw in whatever makes her relax, massages, slow foreplay, some light oral, whatever seems to work best to really get her loose and comfortable beforehand.

 

Oh and one other thought - if you're using condoms, even though they're more expensive, try one that's not latex based - some people have sensitivity to the latex that can burn, cause internal rashes and abrasions.