sunnyv Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Hi everybody, i just wanted to update everybody on how i am doing. Its been six months since my ex dumped me. I am finally starting to get stronger now. I still have my moments and my days where I miss her and I am sad and I just want her back but then it passes and I regain my strength and continue on in my life. I really believe that one day she will realize what she has missed out on but by then its going to be too late. I will have found a woman who loves me and cheerishs me. To everybody who has a broken heart, keep your head up. Keep going, minute by minute, day by day. Just take one minute at a time. We are all here for you so please take some consolence in that. Link to comment
gee Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Sunny, good for you bro! Before you know it your ex will be history! Keep it up! gee Link to comment
sunnyv Posted May 19, 2009 Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 thanks gee! thanks for the support. Link to comment
HoldingHope Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Sunny, may God bless you and grant you peace in your heart. Happiness will be yours again, my friend. It will be all of ours. HUGS Link to comment
Speedbird Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 To everybody who has a broken heart, keep your head up. Keep going, minute by minute, day by day. Just take one minute at a time. We are all here for you so please take some consolence in that. Couldn't agree more. A few weeks ago I was really down in the dumps, still clinging on to hope. However today I got news through a third party that my ex was dating someone else. At first it was a bit of a shock, but within half an hour, I started to become quite happy. Here was a huge weight off my shoulders, comfirming that I was definitely single. I was honestly happy knowing the fact that I could get on with my life without worrying, doing things that I wouldn't of done, and just enjoying myself. Who knows, it may work out, however at this present time it is the time to move on. I am fully commited to NC, deleted her number from my phone, and just preparing for a fresh start. Don't get me wrong, I do know how painfull a break up can be; no sleep, not feeling like eating etc but for all those dumpees (like myself), take the time to enjoy yourself. You only have one shot at life....make the most of it. Link to comment
becca0194 Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I am glad you are getting stronger and feeling good. Today is 6 months to the day of my break up and this was a perfect post to read. Thanks for sharing. Hi everybody, i just wanted to update everybody on how i am doing. Its been six months since my ex dumped me. I am finally starting to get stronger now. I still have my moments and my days where I miss her and I am sad and I just want her back but then it passes and I regain my strength and continue on in my life. I really believe that one day she will realize what she has missed out on but by then its going to be too late. I will have found a woman who loves me and cheerishs me. To everybody who has a broken heart, keep your head up. Keep going, minute by minute, day by day. Just take one minute at a time. We are all here for you so please take some consolence in that. Link to comment
sunnyv Posted May 19, 2009 Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 thanks becca. how are you doing with things? Link to comment
becca0194 Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 thanks becca. how are you doing with things? I have good days and bad days. I actually broke NC yesterday after like 70 something days. I made it brief, he didn't respond. I think I am healing because it in the past I would have stayed in bed and cried. I still feel sad, but got up and had a good day. Part of my sad feeling today was the realization that this person that I loved so very much...is gone. Part of what l loved about him was what a strong, honest person he was. It was also how good he treated me. In the end, he wasn't any of those things. I deserve better.... Thank you for asking !! Here's to good days ahead !! Link to comment
Speedbird Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I have good days and bad days. I actually broke NC yesterday after like 70 something days. I made it brief, he didn't respond. I think I am healing because it in the past I would have stayed in bed and cried. I still feel sad, but got up and had a good day. Part of my sad feeling today was the realization that this person that I loved so very much...is gone. Part of what l loved about him was what a strong, honest person he was. It was also how good he treated me. In the end, he wasn't any of those things. I deserve better.... Thank you for asking !! Here's to good days ahead !! I wish you all the best too! Here is to many good days! Link to comment
becca0194 Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I wish you all the best too! Here is to many good days! Thanks !! Finding this forum has been such a help in moving forward !! It really helps to talk to people that understand exactly how you feel. Link to comment
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