Porn

[musicguy]

I see that porn greatly affects relationships, more or less for women. Maybe it's just me being a guy and me liking porn or having porn at my place...but from a lot of posts I've read porn seems to be a problem within a relationship. Porn is just a "fantasy" or sexual aides for couples. A number of adult companies cater to couples for example... Vivid and Wicked, have porn with plots. I see nothing wrong with porn within a relationship. If it's affecting one's sex life, then talk to your partner about it. Women use sex toys to relieve sexual tension, so why can't guys have porn? All opinions welcome.

 

Musicguy

[tikigirl]

i think it is seen as a form of 'cheating' on them. i know if my boyfirend looked at porn i would certainly feel inadequate compared to those large-breasted (usualy), perfect-figured girls and i would think to myself that i was not as desirable as these girls if my boyfriend had to look at them to get off. using a sex toy is different, and it would be seen a lot differently if, say, the toy came with Virtual Reality goggles which the woman wore and while she used the sex toy she could see a 3-d sexy man naked, doing sexual things so she could be turned on the way her boyfriend could not turn her on.

 

something like that anyway!

 

 

Tiki tiki!

[amilasiu]

it is not that men look at porn that troubles most women (and if porn really troubles a woman, that is a sign of deeper sexual/personal troubles), it is HOW they look at them. When a man sits in front of a computer 24-7, watching porn and masturbating, paying no attention to the girlfriend, that is the problem. When a man spends all weekends in stripclubs, or has a poster of some adult star in the bedroom, a woman has a full right to smack him over the head and kick him out. THis is not acceptable.

 

Why, many women like porn a lot . Ehem... YA!

But sometimes men are such pigs about it, and this is what troubles most of us girls.