More than friends?

[Gunners4eva]

I have been friends with this girl for about 9 years now, we went to school together and have always been good friends, we ar both 19. Over the past few months my feelings have developed for her, she has always been there for me when I needed her and vice versa. Anyway I just wanted your opinion with regards to a few things that have happened between us lately to see if you think I have a chance with her.

 

A few weeks a go we were messing around playing a game of 'slap' where you put your hands in a prayer position and the other person has to slap your hand while you try to avoid it. I was sitting in a chair in her living room and she was standing over me, after a while she kneeled down saying her back was aching, she pushed my legs apart and kneeled right next to me, putting her elbows on my thighs, we were having a laugh with the game, then she missed a shot her elbow slipped off my leg and she feel forward with her head resting on my stomach this was an accident and we laughed it off, but then she did it again on purpose, we again laughed it off.

 

A few days later I was at hers and she was doing some housework for her mother I helped her and while she was doing the hoovering she tried to trap my penis in the hoover shaft, and turning on the hoover while doing it, we again were just laughing and joking about at the time.

 

A couple of weeks ago we were in the pub with a couple of her mates playing pool, I was standing waiting for my turn when she came right up to me and pressed herself into me, standing there for a couple of minutes while we were talking, we also made several suggestive jokes to eachother when holding or chalking the cue.

 

Only a few days a go we were joking again this time giving people marks out of ten for their looks, eventually I asked her what she would give me and she said 4, you are average looking but I would give you 11 for personality.

 

She is quite a flirty girl naturally, but do you think there is a chance she might share my feelings?

[Beec]

She might, but the only ways one can really know is by what she says. Now, you could go up and ask her, but you might not get a straight answer and if you wanted to ask her something like that, you should just be asking her out. Otherwise, it should be avoided. What she is saying with her body language is what you should really be looking at, but you should also be sending your own messages. I've seen and experienced plenty of times when two (sometimes me) will meet, talk and hook up without ever verbally hinting they had an interest. Each sent body language signals the other picked up, consciously or unconsciously, and through body language communicated their interest. Some of what you describe is good body language, as in she is telling you she is interested. But you really need the whole picture to evaluate it correctly. Try to learn a little about the body language women send and what you can tell her through body language, then work it.

 

You might jsut try making your hand touch repeatedly and looking for more and more pressure as they do. If it happens over even jsut a couple minutes, grab her hand and you are off to the races.

[Ladee-Jennifer]

I think you do have a chance with her. I also think you should tell her how you feel. THe longer you wait the harder it gets. but first if she flirts with you flirt bak. try showing her you like her without telling her so she sorta gets the picture.

--------------------------------------------------------------------It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel."

[Ladee-Jennifer]

gooD luCK!