please tell me a story about when the ex came back

[ms anthrope]

hi

 

im rather sad...and have been for over a year. the love of my life left. we were having serious problems and he has a terribly low self-esteem problem that doesnt allow him to love himself much less anyone close to him including me (now) and his family. he said he used to be very in love with me...but now he only loves me...not in love with me. we tried being friends for a year...but it was torture for the both of us. it was hard for me to see him move on while i still did everything to try and save us. when he finally insisted i leave altogether...even as best friends...it's been hard for me and him. he says he still cares about me and misses me. i havent talked to him in two weeks hoping that he'll miss me and want me back.

 

what i truly need though is a story where the ex needed space and got it and then eventually wanted back. anyone...please share. i need hope. i still love him so much.

 

ms

[Aura Seeker]

Hi there. I have a story for you. I have a friend....for real ;-) That was married to her husband of 10+ years, two kids....dog...the whole thing.

 

They separated, and then actually went through a full legal divorce. 3 years later, they were remarried, and still together after 10 more years.

 

If it is for real, it will take a natural path that direction, if not, it won't. Just live your life with intentions of moving on. Keep the courage to accept the things you can't change, and the wisdom to know the difference.

 

I am a romantic, and wish the best for you. No action you take can make it happen though. It's like being pregnant....it's either really there, or it really isn't! ;-)

 

AS

[vroomvroom]

I have a story for you.... ME! Me and my boyfriend had been together for five years when I broke it off with him. Honestly, I have to say that at the time I was sooo sure that I was making the right decision. We were still very young and I was getting curious. Anyway, I went about my life for 8 months, while my boyfriend tried to get over me. One day, it was like I was struck by lightning, and it dawned on me that I TRULY LOVED my boyfriend, and I told him I wanted to get back together with him. He didn't believe me at first, thought I would just change my mind again, but he said we could give it a try.

 

So there u go! IT DEFINITELY DOES HAPPEN!!!