The list

[Busto]

First of all, I've heard this piece of advice a million times before. "Write a list of everything you dislike about her." Yeah, yeah. I never heeded.

 

But today, out of desperation, I decided to give it a go, and I couldn't stop writing! I started with "she cheated on me" and "she lied about it for almost two months", and then I kept going and going. It took me like two minutes to come up with 30 items, and I could've kept at it.

 

It felt so cleansing! I look at the list a few hours later and realize I'm finally starting to think, "What the hell is wrong with me? She cheated and lied, she's always sarcastic, and she doesn't floss. That dude can have her, I don't give a f***, good riddance!"

 

So, if you haven't made a list yet... at least consider it. It worked for me.

[Loki71]

Thanks I'll try it maybe it can help me to move on.

[franfran]

I am going to try that right now!

[pumpkinmoon]

Yay! Good for you. Certainly puts things in perspective when you get the bad things they did down on paper. Just look at that list everytime you are having a bad day or a week moment

[Supa_gurl]

I am sure it is therapeutic. I couldn't do it personally. I have too much respect for him as a man and father.

[Venomite]

and she doesn't floss.

 

I hope that wasn't too high up on the list

[Loki71]

Thanks I'll try it maybe it can help me to move on.

 

Just tried it. Sorry didn't work out to good for me. The good side was way longer than the bad side. Just made me feel worse. Maybe it only works for the ones that wanted out of the relationship.