S4il Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 OK calling a girl first time, a cell phone.... you get no answer, ONLY a voicemail...does the guy leave a message>? if so what do you say>? need details here i just called, No answer...got voicemail, I hung up. (call me Chicken) and.....i was nervous..So what should i do now, call back in a day, in a few hours leave a message, don't leave a message, keep calling until she picks up her phone>>> HELP I'M Not sure if i did that right thing? Link to comment
Colls Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 Hey u did nothing wrong. Call back later and leave a message. Just say hey whats up, this is ***, give me a call back later my number is ******. This shows her your confident nad you dont seem so nervous. Good luck Link to comment
S4il Posted January 3, 2004 Author Share Posted January 3, 2004 Well I'm hoping i see her at the club tonight, but that is unlikely, she isn't an original like myself. When i call back which will probably be tomorrow night. around 6:30-7:00 i'll say something like: "hey this is Sail, I meet you at the club 2 weeks ago, just calling to see whats up, and to know how your Christmas, and New years went, Call me back at this number ******* Lets get to know each other" bye... sounds good?....or how about this one. "hello (her name) This is Sail from the Club, We meet 2 weeks ago, I'm first Calling you to let you know i didn't loose your number, and 2nd to wish you a happy new years, I realize I'm a bit late for that, and last to call me back at this Number, so we can get to know each other" Bye... i think the 2nd one shows my personality more, Joking, having a sense of humor, what do you think...Oh forgot to say feel free to add in what you think is good. Link to comment
tiffany Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 I personally like the first one the best. But if u like the second oen then go with what u feel. I guess I probably would appreciate the second one more if i heard your tone of voice. But honestly go with what YOU feel is best. Dont be afraid or nervous theres nothing to loose. Have fun be urself. Link to comment
tough_girl Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 Hi. Just replied to tell you that I think the second one is better. Humuor eases the tense situation. So give it a go. Use whichever one you want. Good Luck. Link to comment
Cid Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 I think you should go with the 2nd one. If that is how you are then go with that one. Link to comment
atticus Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 yeah second one i'd say... good luck. tell us how it went. Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted January 3, 2004 Share Posted January 3, 2004 i liked the first, but if the seconds you then fair play go with that, i guess when reading it i cant get the way you'd say it but still if thats you go for it. and as for the first question before all of that, pick a time or whatever and then leave a message, just dont become a persistent caller if she doesnt answer for a while. she wont want to get to know you if you cling from the very start. get me? and if you thought about the message if she doesnt pick up, youve deffinitley thought if she has, havent you? kel Link to comment
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