SeaBisquit Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 ok, this happens to my friends and i alot. just wondering what it means and if it's some sort of red flag. i'm kinda dating two guys right now and both of them will call up and ask me out then they will ask about one of my friends. like, the one guy i am dating says he really cares about me alot and he loves being around me. then after he says all that. he will say lets call someone and have them comeover. is this something i should worry about or am i making too much out of it? Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 ok, this happens to my friends and i alot. just wondering what it means and if it's some sort of red flag. i'm kinda dating two guys right now and both of them will call up and ask me out then they will ask about one of my friends. like, the one guy i am dating says he really cares about me alot and he loves being around me. then after he says all that. he will say lets call someone and have them comeover. is this something i should worry about or am i making too much out of it? Kind of strange, yeah. I would be like, "Why are you so concerned about so and so coming over all the time?" Is he always asking about the same person? Link to comment
confused25 Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 maybe he wants to hook up one of single buddies with your friend? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted June 27, 2008 Author Share Posted June 27, 2008 he use to ask about the same person. i thought maybe he was trying to breakup our friendship because he didnt like her around all the time. because i did say to him why the hell are you asking about her all the time. now he just ignores her so i could have been right. it just strange tho, because he really pours it all out there when he talks about his feelings for me. but it's like he doesn't want to spend alot of time with me alone. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 he use to ask about the same person. i thought maybe he was trying to breakup our friendship because he didnt like her around all the time. because i did say to him why the hell are you asking about her all the time. now he just ignores her so i could have been right. it just strange tho, because he really pours it all out there when he talks about his feelings for me. but it's like he doesn't want to spend alot of time with me alone. How long have you two been dating? Can you ask him about this, let him know it's been bothering you? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted June 27, 2008 Author Share Posted June 27, 2008 we have been dating for about five months. and like i said the other guy that i'm dating is doing this to. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 we have been dating for about five months. and like i said the other guy that i'm dating is doing this to. Well, I wouldn't be happy if a girl I was dating had trouble spending time with me alone. In fact, I wouldn't be dating her for long at all. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted June 27, 2008 Author Share Posted June 27, 2008 i think he wants me but he wants the fun of having another girl around too. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 maybe trying to push a 3some. but it sounds as if he has the hots for your friend. Link to comment
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