sweeth tooth cadet Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 can u all tell me what are some of the things you have done or do when u wanna break up with someone but don't have the balls to do it. Maybe the person was nice or something and didnt wanna hurt them Link to comment
metrogirl Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 can u all tell me what are some of the things you have done or do when u wanna break up with someone but don't have the balls to do it. Maybe the person was nice or something and didnt wanna hurt them What are your reasons for not wanting to break up? Fear of the person.... You still love them??? Don't want to hurt them? Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Of course nobody wants to be broken up with, BUT I'd much rather be broken up with than stay in a relationship to spare my feelings. Just be honest with her. The longer you wait the more you will hurt her. Link to comment
brando Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Regardless if they are not expecting a breakup not much can be done to avoid any hurtful feelings they may have. Just be honest. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 I would hate to think that someone would stay with me out of pity. How awful. But back to your question... YOU are really sacrificing your happiness for someone else here. No...it's not gonna be easy to tell someone who cares for you that you don't feel the same way, but, if the shoe were on the other foot, wouldn't you want to know? I know I would. Better to be alone than wish you were alone. ~Allie Link to comment
lifeiscash Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Just tell her.. seriously its that easy. I know what its like to have a g/f string me along and then cheat on me because she didn't want to be with me any longer. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. I would have had so much more respect if she was honest from the get-go.. do the same.. just be honest with her. Link to comment
sweeth tooth cadet Posted May 4, 2008 Author Share Posted May 4, 2008 I just feel like shes been doing these changes on purpose, i think one possibility is to get me mad or something so that she doesnt do the breakup but rather I do. Or that shes just stringing me along to see how much i can put up with and then freak out and have her just ablem in the end like she does sometimes Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 I would just rip it off like a bandaid...the quicker the better. Link to comment
sweeth tooth cadet Posted May 4, 2008 Author Share Posted May 4, 2008 so how do i actually do it than? is it just a simple quetsion I ask her or what? can u help please Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 I would just say "Look...it's not working out. I want to break up." Period. Link to comment
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