Brokenhearted87 Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 Something that only occurred to me today was this: I have not thought of thus have not missed the "physical" side of things with the boy. He was my first in that regard. so it was meaningful and special (yada yada I hear you all saying!) rather than just carnal lust, maybe that has something to do with not missing IT, I dunno. On the other hand, I desperately miss the intimacy of HIM. I miss the hand holding on the couch, cuddling,lying on him,kissing of course, the way he always stroked my hair and the manner in which he touched my face etc. Our little chats about silly things,pet names and goodnight texts. Am I the only one that doesn't miss the sex AT ALL?!? Am I abnormal! Or maybe I'm speaking too soon haha! Link to comment
Stella Sleepwalks Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 On the other hand, I desperately miss the intimacy of HIM. I miss the hand holding on the couch, cuddling,lying on him,kissing of course, the way he always stroked my hair and the manner in which he touched my face etc. Our little chats about silly things,pet names and goodnight texts. Aw.......Yeah...... I just miss the sex! Link to comment
tazthecat Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 Well I'm sure sex is a good part of any relationship, but to be honest, after being together for a while, and the daily requirement dropping into the weekly requirement ,and the stress of day to day circumstances, it's no wonder why it would be set on the back burner.. Most people don't spend their days in bed with their partner, so they will miss the common things they did with each other more. Watching tv, talking about their day, cooking with each other, cuddling and just enoying hearing that persons voice. To be honest and forthright, you weighing an average of what: 1-2 hours in the bedroom, against 10-12 hours of emotional interaction which runs deeper than the surface of physical desire. I find that I as well miss the non physical intimacy with the ex, than the physical. Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 12, 2008 Author Share Posted April 12, 2008 Aw.......Yeah...... I just miss the sex! Love your honesty, Stella! Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 Something that only occurred to me today was this: I have not thought of thus have not missed the "physical" side of things with the boy. He was my first in that regard. so it was meaningful and special (yada yada I hear you all saying!) rather than just carnal lust, maybe that has something to do with not missing IT, I dunno. On the other hand, I desperately miss the intimacy of HIM. I miss the hand holding on the couch, cuddling,lying on him,kissing of course, the way he always stroked my hair and the manner in which he touched my face etc. Our little chats about silly things,pet names and goodnight texts. Am I the only one that doesn't miss the sex AT ALL?!? Am I abnormal! Or maybe I'm speaking too soon haha! I REALLY miss the sex! I miss the other stuff too though! Link to comment
blaat_r Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 Our sex had been really bad for the past couple of months, and most of the intimacy came from my side, but for some stupid reason I still miss it. Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 12, 2008 Author Share Posted April 12, 2008 Our sex had been really bad for the past couple of months, and most of the intimacy came from my side, but for some stupid reason I still miss it. I'd say it's because you miss it WITH HER. My gosh you are all a randy bunch! Link to comment
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 I'll admit it...I miss sex...who isn't busy tonight!? Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 I'd say it's because you miss it WITH HER. My gosh you are all a randy bunch! Oh come onnnnnn broken...you don't miss sex at all?? We are a randy bunch...LOL! Link to comment
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 Okay, I have lots of extra room in my house now...those desiring sex with Eyes, please send me a PM and I'll work you....into the schedule. Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 12, 2008 Author Share Posted April 12, 2008 Haha....my god what have I created here!!?? This is not a booty call thread people!! My innocent eyes!!! Miss Lit...not yet! For real! I miss anything to do with him, sex was obviously one of those things I guess, but really haven't been thinking of it at all or missing it! My ex also said something about sex when I was in my crazy hysterical sleep deprived state at his house post break up which I think has numbed me a little to my feelings about it. Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 12, 2008 Share Posted April 12, 2008 My ex was very sexual...he wore me out! But I still miss it! It was nice.. Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 13, 2008 Author Share Posted April 13, 2008 Haha.....ah now, I'm not saying if he was here now, I'd pass up the opportunity!! But he's not. Link to comment
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 I am serious disappointed to have no PMs yet. Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 Oh but...there is a hottie somewhere waiting for you broken and HE will blow your mind and make you forget ex ever existed!! ;-) Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 13, 2008 Author Share Posted April 13, 2008 Haha...ah the thought of other guys......I'm hoping we'll reunite at some point to be honest, and right now, can't look at other guys let alone say "hell yeah!" and reel em in haha! Eyes you made me LOL just there. Twice tonight I've laughed aloud on ENA. Yay...first laughs since D-Day! Link to comment
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 Chicks dig funny guys. Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 YAY broken!! I know what you mean about other guys...it takes awhile! I hope you can reunite with your ex...that is if he treated you like the princess you are! ;-) Link to comment
Brokenhearted87 Posted April 13, 2008 Author Share Posted April 13, 2008 Aww....thanks Lit. Yeah....I'm not gonna let it rule my life and set up a game plan or anything...but there was nothing "wrong" per se with our relationship, just he has got bogged down in grief etc. And he is a great guy. Very funny too. He laughed me into bed! It's 1am here. Damn...NOW I miss the sex! Link to comment
Litgirl01 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 I sincerely hope everything works out!!!!!! xx I know it's late there...I still think about the time there and think about my ex (he lives in England). He is at work now! Link to comment
nickbroken Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 Eh I miss the sex, not overly I guess. Mostly because I can get sex anywhere and really we stopped having sex as much, much to my dismay. Link to comment
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