To flirt, or not to flirt...

[Coleen]

...that is the question!!

 

So, I have a dilema. Flirting is not supposed to be serious, right? It's flirting, you can suggest something, you can work your way out of a situation with it. But!! is it too soon to flirt over e-mail with a guy you've known for 3 months? Will he take things the wrong way?? Will he think I'm dead serious about something? I like him, but I don't know yet if I want anything serious with him. But I want to have some of my playfulness in the e-mails. So!! your thoughts, ladies and gentlemen?

[Samedy]

Well what do you mean by flirty? If you do it playfully and right, it could be a fun way to show interest.

[Coleen]

Should I worry about how he takes this - seriously or playfully? Or just let it go and do my thing? It is playful flirting btw

[Weeblie]

Are you talking about a guy you met online or in person? Because if it's in person, then I think flirting is fine immediately.

[Samedy]

Well yah, of course you should be yourself.

 

Personally I like subtle flirting, remember, it's supposed to be fun

[someguy88]

This has to be a guy you've only spoken to through email, right?

 

If he's interested in you then yes he's going to think you're serious.

[rs.dallaire]

Flirting is like humour, the less you know someone the more you are likely to miscommunicate...

[beerman]

Just fyi - a lot of guys have the ability to take even the smallest flirt or comment and twist it in their head to believe that a gal is interested in him or "wants him". Be careful.

[ghost69]

Just fyi - a lot of guys have the ability to take even the smallest flirt or comment and twist it in their head to believe that a gal is interested in him or "wants him". Be careful.

 

lol, what? i will find out if a girl is interested by flirting with her. i will ask for her number to really find out.