Confused on what is going on

[Cid]

Ok my ex called me up and sead that we need to talk. So I meet and talked about us, what broke us apart and stuff like that. When we left for the night she sead "now whats going on with us" my responce was "I need to think" She "Ok well talk to you later" and we sead are good byes and gave eachouther a hug. I found out that alot of friends where the cause of us braking up by giving both of us false info. and now I have to confrount them. My big question is why did she call ma and then tell me all of this stuff? Is is becouse she would like to get bact together? Or what? I really like her but I am afrade of being played, I was played in my last relasionship. Do you think she is trying to play me? Well thanks for reading and all help would be nice.

[ultimate_you]

it sounds like she still loves you. umm but i think u have a fear of loosing her again right??? but my advice is to give her a notha chance . Whats the worst that could happen!?

good luck luv ultimate_you

[Cid]

You are right I am afrade of loseing her again, and thanks for the avice more responces would be helpful.

[ultimate_you]

k was she the one who played ya??? if yes b carefull ( she might b a heart breaker) if no- u should just give it a try if it starts to fail thn say u'd rather b friends!

she seems like a really nice girl!!! and u must love her!! wish u both the best!!!

luv ultimate_you

[Cid]

No she was not the one that played me (thank gowd) but that is what some of my so called friends where telling me. What makes me even mader at them they where telling her that I was playing her. Why?

[ultimate_you]

my guess is they were jelouse of you! but im not sure y ne one would purposley try and break u up wit ur gf! so have u decided wat ur gonna do????

[Cid]

I want to go out with her agen but I dont know how to perseed from here. I have never been here before.

[ultimate_you]

okay just ask her out ur friends obviousley dont care about urs/hers feelings! but i wouldnt know , only u know what do do from here!!!

*good luck*

[Cid]

Thanks for the help ultimate_you

[ultimate_you]

hey no problem and i hope u guys work it out!! bye!!

[bdub]

Cid,

 

If she is interested in talking with you about your relationship, it may be the start of her thinking that she wants another shot. Only advice I would give is to make sure you keep communicating. Don't just jump headlong back into the relationship and fall back to old habits. Take it slowly and deliberately. Be honest above all things, both to her and to yourself.

 

Best Wishes,

bdub

[The Morrigan]

If you guys decide to try to work things out - I'd make some sort of pact between you to always discuss everything with the two of you - and NOT take what anyone else says at face value. Even friends with good intentions tend to slant what they say with their own opinions of what they think you need to hear for "what's best for you," which is not necessarily what really IS best, since only you can judge that. It's much easier to communicate well without other people getting in the way!