Panda360 Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 My friend recently told me that she went to a lockin at church, She said while she was sleeping and older friend (male) came to her and... touched her.... she was awake the whole time and didnt know what to do so she just pretended to sleep... Now, shes scared to tell anyone about her problem.. and shes really confused.. what should she DO??? PLEASE ANSWER QUICK!!!!! Link to comment
Hotshot7680 Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 I'm so sorry to hear about that! You should talk to someone who was there (a leader, adult, anyone) and tell them the problem and the incident that occurred. Tell them who did it and what steps should be taken next. If she is to nervous or afraid to tell anyone herself, maybe you should tell an adult, or have she and you got together to discuss the matter. I hope this helps you in any way. Link to comment
Panda360 Posted November 3, 2003 Author Share Posted November 3, 2003 I cant tell anyone.. i promised her i wouldnt tell anyone.. I cant break a friends promise.. i never can do that... never... Link to comment
Ry2003 Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 I cant tell anyone.. i promised her i wouldnt tell anyone.. I cant break a friends promise.. i never can do that... never... I think you should set aside a promise, you're friends welfare is at stake. What if this person makes another attempt at touching her? You should tell someone if she wont. Link to comment
Panda360 Posted November 3, 2003 Author Share Posted November 3, 2003 well she is staying away from this person forever.. the only way he can touch her like that again is if she goes to another lock in or sleepover which she will definatly NOT go to if that person is there agian... Link to comment
Mickey Pie Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 You shouldn't let him get away with this. You're basically saying it was okay for him to do that by not taking action. Your friend shouldn't have to exclude herself from activities just because there's some creep that's going to be there. Take action and get the guy the discipline he deserves. Link to comment
TehShyGuy Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 hehheh im never thinking about doing that agian.....maybe its common for men to think of it? But yes you should tell someone about this. In fact i order you to. Link to comment
The Morrigan Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 You, or your friend, are going to have to tell someone... it's not just this incident or her at stake, if he did it to her, he WILL do it to someone else, almost guaranteed. If she's scared, offer to go with her to tell someone you both trust, a priest, counselor, someone who will be able to reassure her she did nothing to welcome this, and there's nothing wrong with reporting it. But it really does have to be reported so he can be dealt with, before more girls end up in her position, and before his behavior escalates to more than touching. Link to comment
ravergirlzzzz Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 hi! i think that u should tell someone or she tells someone who was there that day! because is she was scared about this incident,for the rest of her life she'll be scared! she'll always thinks about that day and in the longrun this problem might affect her! Link to comment
kodiakxt Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 Panda, you have to tell someone. Tell your parents and let them handle it. This is about more than just you and your friends relationship. If this guy did it once then he will do it again. Think about all the other girls that goto that church. The ones that may even be littlier than her and not comprehend what is taking place. By staying silent you are condemning other people to there fate and not stopping a wrong that is going to take place in the future. Think about it man. As a church goer myself I am deeply offended and bothered by this. If you refuse to do something about it because of the promise between you and your friend, then private message me the name of the town and church, I will gladly make a longdistance call and get this resolved myself. This is something that cannot take place again. I dont know how old you are, but no one is ever young enough to start taking a stand and becoming a man. This is your chance. Dont condemn other people to there fate and remain silent. -Matt Link to comment
Hotshot7680 Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 You need to talk to her about it or something, so that you two could let someone know, cause who knows what might happen next. You really need to tell somebody. She shouldn't have to skip activities like that just because of this person, she should get to go where she wants. Just please take everyone's advice and tell somebody... Link to comment
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