need help

[showbe]

well theres this girl i like and on aim we chat but then our chats always die

heres an example

 

me

girl

me: wat are u doing right now?

girl u?

me: blah blah

 

ends there. i dont know wat to talk to her about or how to start our conversations so our chats always die so i dont even bother talking to her now. can anybody help me or give me some adivce?

[Cid]

Try to find out what she likes to da and go of there.

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

Hey showbe, it's happy heb

 

Yea, it's hard to talk to some people sometimes hey? Just don't be discouraged, if she seems bored then move the conversation.

 

Start with simple things like hobbies, interests, songs and stuff that you can expand on. Or if you'd like to get to know how better ask each other stuff you'd like to know about each other like family, moments etc etc.

 

Hope that helped

Happy Heb

[beagle]

Yup - I agree with the rest of the guys

 

Try and find something she's really into (even better if you share it) - people love to talk about stuff they're passionate about

 

Conversations with new people always start off awkwardly - shouldn't imagine that you have nothing in common whatsover!