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[NinjaLink]

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[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

Hey aaron! I'm Happy Heb First up, I'd like to welcome you to enotalone on behalf of everyone. I'm sure u've taken a nice step towards finding support and advice from many people of various ages from around the world which will be around for a while.

 

Isn't life all about takin chances? you shouldn't think about things, just do it because you know, chances are you'll never be able to predict the future. But life's just too short, screw thinkin twice.

 

What if he/she's just feelin what u're feelin, someone's gotta spill it out sonner or later, sure u might screw ur friendship ova for a while but at least he'll kno and u might get a chance in the future. Like me, I was in the same situation and now me and my really good friend's togetha.

 

You don't really have a friendship right now, well not a deep bond yet so it's a great way of finding out things about people as when you're going out with someone, you learn so much more about them as you would friends, plus, what have you got to loose?

 

I think it's just you thinkin too much and worrying about things before they surpass but I suppose, sometimes people like to be prepared even though there's just way too many possiblities lol "ooh.. the possibilities" - some sorta toy ad catchphrase. Anyway, right back to this, even if u do worry, somethin else you might not b prepared for might occur, then wouldn't it have been a waste of time?

 

I think you should tell, coz you know it's definitely the best way i reckon. Because that way you wouldn't waste your time, if she says no, u'll know what she feels sooner and plus, even if she says no, at least she knows you like her and now so she could reconsider.

 

Don't think twice. Go for it. Like I said, life's way too short once you get down to it.

 

If you were wondering how am i gonna tell her, tell me a little bit about yourself and the approach you'd like to make and I could help you out with that if you want.

 

'luck

 

Happy Heb

[NinjaLink]

I guess I have to start by asking if she has a boyfriend and if she do, then I will just stick to being friends with her. If she don't, I guess I will ask if she is looking...and if she says yes...I will take it from there.

[inastate]

There is no reason why you shouldn't ask her out. Take her out, get to know her better. If she has a boyfriend and doesn't feel comfortable going out with you for whatever reason then she'll tell you.

 

Good luck!

[Cid]

Dont ask if she has a b/f you should just ask her out on a date and if she has a b/f then say "no no not like that as a friend" even it was like that keep your cool and your friendship will say intacted. Well I wish you the best of luck on asking her out.